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A TWISTED VIEW OF MARRIAGE!!!

People will see a man washing his clothes and instead of minding their business, they’ll say “Ahh Oga Ejike, go and marry so you’ll stop washing”.

They’ll see a man cooking and be like “Bro Ade, you need to get married so you can stop cooking”.

A mother will look at his 35years old son who cannot wash his own boxers, boil water for tea or even make his own bed, a 35years old that cannot take his plates to the kitchen after eating and tell him “James, you need to settle down, get a woman to take care of you”. SERIOUSLY?? 😳😳

In different ways, the society subconsciously tell men that they don’t marry women for any reason other than cleaning, cooking and childbearing. I begin to wonder, does the average man need a wife or a glorified maid?

Many women look 3times their age all because of stress and exhaustion. You sit down in front of the TV with your phone and watch your wife work until she’s about to pass out. REALLY?? 😱

Men, who told you that it is wrong to wash your own plates?

Who told you that it is wrong to wash your own clothes?

Who told you that it is wrong to dress your bed when you wake up?

What will it take to help your partner with chores in the house?

If a man wanted to be adopted as a child to be pet, pampered, fed and nursed. Then, he need not to seek marriage, he should rather offer himself up for an adoption at a motherless home to be pick up.

BUT If you want a wife, who you would love, cherish, do different things with, assist in some chores, and love her for the rest of your life, then get married.

AND if you are getting married because you feel you’re becoming too old to do your own chores then get a maid.

Women are to be cherished, pampered and loved, not USED. Likewise men too😊😊

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LETS TALK ABOUT LOVE!

LOVE  is a language many are still trying to learn like a toddler and if care is not taken, there is a thin line between love and hatred.

Love is an intense feeling of deep affection.   It is a complete acceptance of the other party. It is when we allow the other person to be exactly as they are without wanting to change them to who we think they should be.

THE relationship that led to marriage in the first instance did not have an element of nagging, arguments, criticisms and other things that turns love to hatred to start with but over the years, we take what the other person is doing for granted, Then we feel we are better at doing things or bring more to the table,  we are more knowledgeable etc, we then tend to see things differently and that is when things start to go  horribly wrong.

For example, many couples run their marriage like a business. They discuss the bills, the kids, and the day to day operations of the house. They may struggle to keep things in check or they may operate like a well-oiled machine. Either way, they may lack quality communication with one another.

How often do you and your spouse discuss your feelings? When is the last time you talked about your hopes and dreams? Most people have trouble talking to their spouse. They don’t know how to express their feelings or their needs and wants. This is often a major problem in marriage. It often leads to a fight or disagreement. The best resolution you can have concerning your marriage this year, apart from loyalty, love and faithfulness is to learn how to communicate properly. Yes. Communication is as much about listening as it is talking. If we have to or just simply take a deep breath and try to really hear what our spouse is saying and respond rationally and with love, we will all have a better marriage.

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love  your spouse the right way!

LOVE CHALLENGE:

Think about what you can do differently in your marriage for the next one month and lets talk about the difference it has made in your relationship.

A TWISTED VIEW OF MARRIAGE!!!

People will see a man washing his clothes and instead of minding their business, they’ll say “Ahh Oga Ejike, go and marry so you’ll stop washing”.

They’ll see a man cooking and be like “Bro Ade, you need to get married so you can stop cooking”.

A mother will look at his 35 years old son who cannot wash his own boxers, boil water for tea or even make his own bed, a 35 years old that cannot take his plates to the kitchen after eating and tell him “James, you need to settle down, get a woman to take care of you”. SERIOUSLY??

In different ways, the society subconsciously tell men that they don’t marry women for any reason other than cleaning, cooking and childbearing. I begin to wonder, does the average man need a wife or a glorified maid?

Many women look 3 times their age all because of stress and exhaustion. You sit down in front of the TV with your phone and watch your wife work until she’s about to pass out. REALLY??

Men, who told you that it is wrong to wash your own plates?

Who told you that it is wrong to wash your own clothes?

Who told you that it is wrong to dress your bed when you wake up?

What will it take to help your partner with chores in the house?

If a man wanted to be adopted as a child to be pet, pampered, fed and nursed. Then, he need not to seek marriage, he should rather offer himself up for an adoption at a motherless home to be pick up.

BUT If you want a wife, who you would love, cherish, do different things with, assist in some chores, and love her for the rest of your life, then get married.

AND if you are getting married because you feel you’re becoming too old to do your own chores then get a maid.

Women are to be cherished, pampered and loved, not USED. Likewise men too

Or what do you think about this post?